Tinjauan Hukum Islam tentang Pemberian Nafkah setelah Menikah

Abstract

Abstract. The construction of a family institution starts from a marriage which previously could be done through a marriage procession. Communities in Neglasari Village, Kudapandak Subdistrict, Cianjur Regency have the custom in the engagement procession, which requires the prospective husband to provide "income" to his prospective wife, even giving some money to the family of the prospective wife. If during this engagement period if there is a possibility of the man being unable to provide for the living, the prospective husband is considered unable to respect the prospective wife and prospective wife's family. Based on this background, the focus of the study is aimed at reviewing the grooming of prospective bridegroom to provide a living in Neglasari Village, Cianjur Regency according to Islamic law. The research method used is qualitative research normative juridical approach. And the results of this study indicate that the engagement procession carried out by Neglasari Village, Cidaun District, Cianjur Regency according to Islamic law review is part of ‘Urf. If in its implementation because it tends to incriminate or impose and cause adverse impacts on prospective husbands, it is called Al Urf Al Fasid, if it is not burdensome and can be willing and cause goodness and peace for all parties then it can be categorized as Al Urf Ash Shahih.

Keywords: Engagement, Customary Law, and Islamic Family Law.

 

Abstrak. Pembangunan lembaga keluarga dimuali dari pernikahan yang sebelumnya dapat dilakukan melalui prosesi peminangan. Masyarakat di Desa Neglasari Kecamatan Kudapandak Kabupaten Cianjur memiliki adat kebiasaan dalam prosesi pertunangan tersebut yaitu mewajibkan pihak calon suami untuk memberikan “nafkah†kepada calon isterinya, bahkan memberikan sebagian uang bagi keluarga calon isterinya tersebut. Apabila dalam masa pertunangan ini apabila ada kemungkinan dari pihak laki-laki tidak bisa memberikan nafkah tersebut, maka calon suami tersebut dianggap tidak bisa menghargai calon istri dan keluarga calon istri. Berdasarkan latar belakang tersebut, maka fokus penelitian ditujuka untuk meninjau peminangan calon mempelai pria terhadap pemberian nafkah di Desa Neglasari Kabupaten Cianjur menurut hukum Islam. Metode penelitian yang digunakan penelitian kualitatif pendekatan yuridis normatif. Dan hasil penelitian ini menunjukkan bahwa prosesi pertunangan yang dilakukan masyarakat Desa Neglasari Kecamatan Cidaun Kabupaten Cianjur menurut tinjauan hukum Islam termasuk bagian dari ‘Urf. Jika Dalam pelaksanaannya karena cenderung memberatkan atau membebankan serta memimbulkan dampak buruk bagi calon suami maka disebut dengan Al Urf Al Fasid, apabila tidak memberatkan dan dapat kerelaan serta menimbulkan keridhaan dan kedamaian bagi semua pihak maka dapat dikategorikan sebagai Al Urf Ash Shahih.

Kata Kunci : Pertunangan, Hukum Adat, dan Hukum Keluarga Islam.