TIPE HUBUNGAN CINTA PADA PASANGAN SUAMI ISTRI ANGGOTA KOMUNITAS SWINGER "X" DI KOTA BANDUNG

Abstract

Abstract: Married is one task the developments that must be lived by an individual, particularly individual young adults. In a marriage, must be based on the purpose and by a sense of love. According to Sternbrg in his theory of triangular love theory, it said that love formed by three components, namely intimacy, passion, and commitment. Besides, virtually a marriage will be both a close marriage. However, in fact today because lifestyle hedonic, the age of marriage, adjustment marriages less well, and the existence of sexual disorder, make some married couple have the marriage that is both open  marriage, namely a marriage which allows/husband his wife involved a close relationship (intimate relationship with another man/woman). One example is swinger, namely the process of transposing the couple each other to relate sexual done by the couple husband and wife.

This is the descriptive research whose aim is to look at an image of about type a love affair on married couple of community members swinger “X†in Bandung with a population of about 20 people (10 pairs of man and wife). Data type a love affair using measuring instrument based on the theory of Sternberg in sternberg’s triangular love scale (STLS) construed in Indonesian language and adjusted to the subject of an research. The results show that as many as three pairs of husband and wife love relationship have type consummate love-non love, having two pairs of husband and wife love consummate type of a love affair, and as many as one pair of husband and wife each type of infatuation has a love affair, non love, consummate love-infatuation, consummate love-romantic love, and consummate love-fotous love. This shows that the majority of married couple who incorporated into community swinger  “X†type of Bandung having a love affair that is not ideal, namely as many as eight pairs of .While, as many as two pairs of other husband and wife love relationship have ideal type.

Keywords : patterns of love, intimacy, passion, commitmen