STUDI DESKRIPTIF MENGENAI MAINTENANCE BEHAVIOR PADA KORBAN DATING VIOLENCE DI KOTA BANDUNG

MUTIARA PUSPITAWATI PUTRI, YUNITA SARI

Abstract


Dalam menjalani hubungan romantis pada masa emerging adulthood, sebagian individu telah berencana dan mengharapkan untuk dapat menikah. Pada kenyataannya proses dalam menjalani hubungan romantis itu tidaklah mudah. Terdapatnya perbedaan-perbedaan dalam masa pacaran adalah sesuatu yang pasti dialami oleh setiap pasangan, dan perbedaan tersebut dapat memicu sebuah pertengkaran yang akhirnya dapat mengakibatkan tumbuhnya perilaku yang mengarah pada kekerasan dalam pacaran (dating violence). Meskipun para korban telah mendapatkan berbagai jenis kekerasan dari pasangan, mereka masih tetap mempertahankan hubungannya hingga saat ini. Penelitian ini merupakan penelitian deskriptif dengan subjek penelitian sebanyak 141 orang.Data diperoleh dari penyebaran kuisioner secara langsung dan online. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan 32 orang (23 %) memiliki maintenance behavior yang tinggi. Sebanyak 32 orang mengalami physical abuse, 55 orang mengalami psychological abuse, 43 orang mengalami physicaldan psychological abuse, dan 11 orang mengalami kekerasan ekonomi. Terdapat faktor lain yang mampu meningkatkan maintenance behavior, diantaranya adalah komitmen dan interdependence.

Keywords


Dating Violence, Maintenance Behavior

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DOI: http://dx.doi.org/10.29313/.v0i0.1624

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