Hubungan Self-Compassion dengan Loneliness Pada Remaja di Panti Asuhan Al-Fien Bandung

Tantri Hadianti, Ria Dewi Eryani

Abstract


Abstract. Not all teenagers are lucky to live with their families, various reasons can lead to teenagers living in orphanages. Orphanages aim to provide care for children who do not live with the family and are tasked with meeting the physical, psychological and social needs of the child. However, adolescents at the Al-Fien orphanage showed that they had high loneliness because they did not have close relationships with other people and could not participate in activities with friends who had the same interests. Some orphanage teenagers also show that they have low self-compassion, seen from some teenagers that they cannot accept the situation they are experiencing and tend to blame others for the problems that have occurred to them. The method used is the Spearman rank correlation with 32 subjects. The measuring tool for measuring self-compassion uses an adaptation of the self-compassion scale compiled by Neff (2003). In measuring loneliness using an adaptation of the UCLA Loneliness Scale Version 3 compiled by Russell (1996). The results showed that there was a negative relationship between self-compassion and loneliness with a correlation coefficient of -0.598.

Keywords: loneliness, orphanage adolescents, self-compassion

Abstrak. Tidak semua remaja beruntung dapat tinggal dengan keluarganya, berbagai alasan dapat menyebabkan remaja tinggal di panti asuhan. Panti asuhan bertujuan untuk memberikan pengasuhan bagi anak yang tidak tinggal dengan keluarga serta bertugas untuk memenuhi kebutuhan fisik, psikologis maupun kebutuhan sosial anak. Namun remaja di panti asuhan Al-Fien menunjukan bahwa mereka memiliki loneliness yang tinggi dilihat karena remaja tidak mempunyai hubungan yang akrab dengan orang lain, serta tidak dapat mengikuti kegiatan dengan teman yang memiliki minat yang sama. Beberapa remaja panti juga menunjukan bahwa mereka memiliki self-compassion yang rendah dilihat dari beberapa remaja tidak dapat menerima keadaan yang dialami dan cenderung menyalahkan orang lain atas permasalahan yang terjadi padanya. Metode yang digunakan adalah korelasi rank spearman dengan jumlah subjek 32 orang. Alat ukur dalam mengukur self-compassion menggunakan adaptasi self-compassion scale yang disusun oleh Neff (2003). Dalam mengukur loneliness menggunakan adaptasi UCLA Loneliness Scale Version 3 yang disusun Russel (1996). Hasil penelitian menunjukan terdapat hubungan negatif antara self-compassion dan loneliness dengan koefisen korelasi sebesar -0,598.  

Kata Kunci: loneliness, remaja panti asuhan, self-compassion


Keywords


loneliness, orphanage adolescents, self-compassion

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DOI: http://dx.doi.org/10.29313/.v6i2.23576

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